We have tried to change our focus for Christmas this year. Not just because we've had to spend extra on gas for our car search and a rental car recently, but we had planned it months ago. We knew we wanted the children to remember the things we did as a family for the holidays, not what they received. We also wanted to help them give to others. We've sent a special card to Hawa, our sponsored child through World Vision, and we are excited to send her a special gift for her family this year. Last year Katy and I volunteered at the local Operation Christmas Child drop off center, and we decided this year that each of our children would be given a certain amount of money and they were able to each fill a shoebox for a girl (or a boy, in Stevie's case) their age. They loved it! We keep talking about their new friends, and wondering where they are and praying for them. You can still do this with your family if you send it in to them now...
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Instead of loading the kids up with gifts, we asked them to choose one gift they'd like to have (they also will get a book and a stocking with candy, etc... in it), and we will pick 4 toys to donate (or more, as the spirit leads...). I really love what Ann Voskamp's family does...
We've also been doing something fun together each day to celebrate Advent- I'm hoping to do a Jesse tree next year, but I felt that was a little too stressful this year to make the ornaments with a newborn. Instead we are following an advent reading from an advent devotional each day, and we do an activity as a family- we've made cookies, snow fudge, candies, paper snowflakes, salt dough ornaments, eaten a pomegranate, made monkey bread, made tree decorations, set up our fisher price and playmobile nativities (and played with them!), compiled a list of people that we could surprise with a gift (of cookies or candy) that don't always get remembered this time of year (for example, we give cookies to our mailman, and we're going to drop some at the police station, fire station, the bank, a local nursing home, etc...). There's so many more things that we have to look forward to, also- I'll try to get pics along the way.